Miss Union and League 2006-2008
Elena Blebea
Elena Blebea, Miss Union and League
2006-2008
Essay By Elena Blebea
The fast-paced Romanian
music filled me with joy as my feet skipped in the pattern of
the traditional circle dance. I was only four years old, but
as I danced and ate mititei at the Union and League
convention, I knew and loved my Romanian heritage. As I have
grown up, my heritage has come to mean more than just these
Romanian activities and is a source of pride, a sense of
family, and a shared history.
In my room, there hangs a Romanian flag. Every
morning when I wake up, I see it and am reminded of who I am
and where I came from. Many other students at my school are
unaware or unconcerned about their heritage. Yet I have always
been proud to be Romanian because it is my identity. To me,
being Romanian means being strong, dignified, hardworking, and
sociable. Most people who know me know that I am Romanian and
it is an aspect that distinguishes me from the majority. I am
always proud to tell people about the country of Romania
including the fact that Romanian is the fourth Romance
language. I know that I am an American, but my heritage is
Romanian and it will never be forgotten or disregarded.
My Romanian heritage also means family. First,
it has defined my own family. My grandparents immigrated to
the US in 1963 with my father and my aunt. They toiled to earn
a living, educate their children, and learn a new language.
Although they assimilated well into American culture, they are
still Romanian. Their mindset, values, religion, traditions
and food are still Romanian. When I visit my grandparents, I
look forward to church services at Saint Nicholas Romanian
Orthodox Church in Alliance,Ohio, hearing stories about the
village of Ileni and, of course, eating sarmale. However, not
only does my heritage mean family in the sense of immediate
family, but also in the sense of the larger family of the
Romanian community. Every time I go to the Union and League
Convention, I always feel welcomed by the people. There is an
affability and feeling of community that I cherish. If I am
meeting people and learn that they are Romanian, I feel as
though we are kindred spirits. This feeling is strengthened
when I see things such as the publication "America" which
reports Romanian news both in the US and across the worl. The
newspaper will print baby pictures, anniversaries, and recipes
from Romanian families across the US and Canada. It is as if
all of the Romanians are family even if they do not personally
know each other. The Romanian heritage is a common bond that
unites and preserves the Romanian community in America.
Finally, my heritage has meant history. When I
turned sixteen, I received a traditional Romanian costume over
one hundred years old. I was in awe as I admired the handiwork
and the Romanian traditions that have been in existence for
hundreds of years. Being Romanian means having a foundation to
build upon, because there is such a rich history and past that
can help guide me into the future. When I visit Romania this
summer, I will see the village where my grandparents grew up
and my father spent eight years. I look forward to
appreciating the history of my family and seeing the roots of
my heritage.
As I grow older, many things about my life are
beginning to change. I will be starting college this year and
will be living in a new society with new friends and new
surroundings. However, there is one thing about my life that
will remain the same forever - my Romanian heritage. The
pride, family, and history that this heritage provides has
influenced me more than an essay can describe and for that I
am truly grateful.
Miss Union and League 2004-2006
Bianca Holtier
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